“Age shall not wither her nor custom stale her infinite variety” so said a man called Enobarbus of Cleopatra in one of my favourite Shakespearean plays, Anthony & Cleopatra.
I won’t bore you with his motive, but just leave it that I’ve always thought it was such a wonderful thing to say about a woman who wasn’t in the bloom of youth. And now, as I enter my 5th decade, those words caused me to think.
It’s fair to say that I really haven’t taken the idea of being 50 very well (as if any of us has a choice
). It’s ridiculous I know because nothing has changed since the clock ticked over into a new day at midnight. But I so enjoyed being 30 something, and then there was 40 something which seemed to be even better. So what will my 50’s bring?
As the song says “the future’s not ours to see”, but I certainly won’t settle for “que sera, sera” because that leaves too much to chance; I want to spend the rest of my life doing what I love, and do best, and that’s helping people to feel and look great. And I’m determined that my new decade won’t bring my dotage, or a slowing down because, in so many ways, I feel better than I did in my 30’s.
I’m certainly not Cleopatra, and I don’t even know an Enobarbus (damn), but I won’t let a number hold me back :-)
